Coercive control
This refers to continuous patterns of behaviour that are intended to exert power or control over you. These behaviours can deprive you of your independence and can make you feel isolated or scared. This can have a serious impact on your day to day life and wellbeing. Types of coercive control include:
- Isolating you from family and friends
- Controlling what you eat, wear or do
- Controlling who you are allowed to see or spend time with
- Preventing you from accessing support
- Controlling your access to medicine, devices or care that you need
- Gaslighting (manipulate you into questioning your own perception of reality)
- Monitoring your behaviour (online or in person)
- Tracking you, for example using your phone or car
- Controlling your finances
- Emotionally or physically threatening or intimidating you
- Threatening to disclose information about you publicly
- Humiliating or degrading you
- Repeatedly putting you down
- Making you feel fearful or scared of non-compliance
- Threatening to have you deported or using your immigration status to control you

